As a seasoned depressionist (not sure if such a word exist....let me start off to add to the archives of this great language which keeps growing every day without my contribution too), I have lot of theoritical solutions to come out of depression spell. In fact, if I look bit deeper, it is not that they are all theoritical ones but many of them tested ones too and I have stumbled upon few of them sporadically during some of my depression spells....BUT it is also a cruel fact that I really forget the comprehensive list of such solutions when I am deep into a depression spell....!!
One such wonderful solution was seemlessly tested during last week which I prefer to share with the whole world. I prefer to give a name called "multiplier" effect for this simple and straight tool. Hold your breath.....well, this is no great suspense but never forget to rever a technology that works - rather which has worked for me quite recently.....!!
I was undergoing my inertness syndrome for close to 5 days and it was getting bit too much, I forced myself to visit the houses of near and dear.....quite unexpectedly for them giving me a very positive energy when I saw the brightened faces to see me (of course, guys, you need to take a call to visit those houses where faces get beaming seeing you.....if its a wrong choice of the house, perhaps its you who is wrong , not the "multiplier" technology). I infact consciously created a hype about my visit by exchanging few SMS with my sister whom I visited which is one reason why she was shell shocked (with surprise of course) to see me at her doorstep (my exchanges given at the end of this posting) . Then I went to another sister's house too and reached back to office on the next day fully refreshed and in extremely positive mind set.
Like all negative things that spread like wild fire, positive things too spread - trust me. One conscious step towards some joy results in some genuine happiness for one or few who are intended which inturns sets up the roller coaster impact which I prefer to call as Multiplier Effect. Please make use of it as much as you want....rather as much as you can.....!!
Well, such a simple thing needs a posting using a modern technology ? People who get depressed once a while will clearly understand that this is not a BACKWAS posting and I am sure will be tempted to try it out....AND there is no dearth of such people and there should be no dearth of such trivial postings too....!!
Suchoo
ps:- My sms exchanges with my sister (a bit of intro before you read thru' = She travels to her office via kodambakkam station where I live; Not very long ago, we had an arrangement where by she brought breakfast for me from her home and gave to me thru' the train window during the few seconds when the train stopped at Kodambakkam station where I dutifully went and collected.....Now go on)
@ 6 AM in the morning, 1st July 2010
Me : What Breakfast for me Madam ?
Gayathri : Sorry da. Today I have to attend a poonal kalyanam. Forgot completely...tomorrow ?
Me : No plan of making any breakfast ? At least pazhaiyadhu ?
Gayathri : Idly today. But meeting you will be difficult. Plus I cannot carry every thing to marriage hall. Just one hand bag today...
Me : who dont you try ? Baba can make lot of magic if we are willing ....
Gayathri : Morning function. From there office. No idea about the time. Friends are coming. Sorry da....
After a pause...obviously after reading my above message
Gayathri : Poda !!
Me : SMILEY Some times Silence is golden !!!!
Gayathri : I'll bring som egood item surely tomorrow. Puliyodarai ?
Me : As you wish !! I am like crow which relishes every thing....
Gayathri : SMILEY
Without much of need for futher explanation, since the entire SMS exchange was happening as I was travelling from my office to her home in my office cab, I landed up at her door to see a wide grin in her face.....!!
Hope you can re-live the multiplier effect for yourself.....taking this as a practical proof.....!!
I like this 'Multiple Effect' concept. Nice one yaar. :)
ReplyDeleteSuresh I very much your behavioural style and your luv n affection towards your sibblings. I used to tell your sister that she is lucky to have a brother like you. Will u accept me as one more elder sister ? wonder who this is ? U ask your sis....
ReplyDeleteYeah.....She told me about your discussions. delighted to have your feedback....!!! By the by, I dont mind having one more sister....but definitely not an elder one....!! Even in size, I am the biggest in the family and I prefer to be elder to each around me....!! Cheers
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