Prelude : On a casual reading of my past two postings, I could sense that my "Followers" will stop following me and my postings if I go in the same direction !!
Encouraged by positive feedbacks on one of my earlier posting on multiplier effect, I am propounding another simple technique that you will bound to relish.....
Cheers // Suren
Dear All
All of us have situations when we are really unsure on course of action to be taken. It could be either too trivial or very big challenge - nevertheless, you will accept that it is always easy to come out with solutions to "others" problems while we find "our" problem are bit difficult to solve...!!
Counselling with well wishers of course helps most of the times but here there is a catch. First we should have well wishers in the most genuine sense and they should have the time and patience when we are stuck up on some thing desperately !! More over, we should be having enough time, patience and also ability to communicate the problemin 3 dimension so that we dont end up losing these friends in arguements !! (Doesn't it happen ? in order to make them understand, we use all our communication skill only to confuse them more....!!)
Lets understand some thing crystal clear. Life is too wonderful and complex and any given situation is too unique and needs a specialized attention to handle it. Though I dont deny that its technically possible to get a solution from our friends by making an attempt to put them the "situation" in black and white....most times, it could fail as life is after all GREY !!
That leads to my latest technology which is shared in the title above. When we are in any predicament, use this simple and easy tool to get a solution. Beware of the conditions that are required to be taken care to have this tool effective......!! (1) We should not have a tinge of bias against the possible course of actions....; OR we should be equally confused about both the options; (2) Once we apply the tool and arrive at the decision, go and implement it without bating the eye lid....!! You will see that it will work.
Well, is the tool too confusing or I appear to be too humourous ?? If you have trust in God, I suggest you to do it bit differently to suit your personality. Write down your possible options in small chits of papers, roll it over, throw it in front of your favourite God, Give him / her a polite namaskar, pick up a chit....and just do what the chit recommends you to do...PERIOD....!!
Well, it works for me wonderfully - there had been two instances in the past month when I applied this technique (Yeah, being a theist, I preferred God instead of "inki pinki ponki")....and found that its quite effective.
To understand the deeper science (if any !!) behind it, its all but a tinge of CHARANAAGATHI philosophy of Bhakthi Yoga !! We have become too complex these days processing so much of unnecessary thoughts in our minds and this is one simple (rather simplistic) tool that can help you to get a taste of surrendering ourselves to some thing which we consider bigger than ourselves.
For those who believe in God, I am sure they will agree to the logic of this tool (Gentle reminder :: Conditions apply !!) but for those hapless athiest, I feel they can take the IPP technology with a touch of humour....!! After all, though they dont believe in God, they too deserve solutions, right ??
If some one after reading this patiently meets me into my eyes and tells me " Can't I take my decisions on my own ??".....I have a humble namaskar back to him wishing him good luck on his endeavours.....You see, we need to have a need for any thing..including reading of this blog......!! I am here explaining this latest discovery with lot of excitement only because I have a strong urge to share !!
With Love
Suchoo / Suren
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