Bondage......!!

Hi

Many people misunderstand physical proximity (or availability) to be a pre requisite for bondage and affection....!! All the mental agonies and wails when we miss some one stems out of this misunderstanding. In fact, I personally have felt in more than one occassion that it is not really required to be close to the person whom we love...to love !! On the contrary, I had had experiences of dilution of the relationship when we are in close proximity of such admired relationship mainly due to too much of interactions leading to unnecessary confrontations / avoidable communication gaps.

The healthiest of relationship can exist only when we are in touch in mental plane. I still vividly recall the depth of my relationship with some of my college mates and school mates with whom no longer I am in touch.....!! The mere thoughts of such nice relationships are enough to get inspired for my today....! (very difficult to put this in black and white...I dont mean really mean dreaming about past....just get the feel and get moored to the present..!!)

Dont we know the art of not speaking to some one who sits next to us in office / college ? If this is practically possible, then having a bondage out of physical realm too is definitely possible at least technically, isn't it ?? I am not advocating spiritual truths of having relationship beyond time and space...but will not wonder if I am leading towards this type of realities which are bit far off for me as at now...!!

Loving all as propounded by all religions is only possible when we create a gap from us and our physical realities....!! If we are going to suffer for every little loss that happen to us physically, then how are we going to evolve further ?? I dont mean being inhuman to people around us...but just learn to enjoy their absences too as much as their physical presence.....!!

Too much bragging for today...Bye....!!
Hope I will be regularly posting from now on....

Suren